Sex and relationships can be so many things - intimidating, exciting, stressful, ecstatic, confusing, deeply meaningful, a minefield strewn with opportunities for crippling insecurity and rejection and the place in which we feel most ourselves and most at home.

 

How can we learn to find more bliss and less bleugh in sex and relationships? How can we overcome the perceived limitations of our circumstances, personal history or indeed, our bodes to access more pleasure and connection?

 

By cultivating a landscape of new experience so we can continue to expand and grow through sensuality and pleasure. Counter to how most of us experience school, humans learn best when excited and engaged, when practice is pleasurable and acts as positive reinforcement in and of itself.

 

Erotic enrichment sessions are a process of discovery and learning. Together we will practice skills of embodiment, self regulation and conscious connection to help you stay present and curious about your particular erotic learning goals while opening to pleasure. 

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Do you want to...

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• Learn how to have more control over your arousal and orgasm?

• Get out of your head and experience more sensation and pleasure in your body?

• Unlock new states of orgasm?

• Change troublesome masturbation habits/ porn use?

• Build confidence in partnered interactions (getting practice at touch, tasting, kissing, intercourse)?

• Get support with body image concerns?

• Find ways to defuse social and sexual anxieties that are getting in the way?

• Learn to stay with yourself while tuning into whats happening for the other person during sex?

• Communicate more effectively about fantasies, desires, likes and dislikes? 

• Look after your sexuality and pleasure through stress, ageing, illness or injury? 

• Have support in incorporating new erotic practices into your partnership?

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Erotic Enrichment is my own form of interactive sex coaching. We are, at all times, guided by your learning objective and what you decide is best for you. After an initial chat, we will start with an embodiment exercise (perhaps I will guide us in a body scan or something more active), followed by a main practice piece (a touch based game, erotic bodywork) and finally some time for installing the experience and reflecting before finishing the session. Throughout, we will slow things down so there is time to notice and reflect. ​

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I bring my training in sexological bodywork, somatic sex education, somatic attachment therapy, embodied counselling and my experiences with a range of other somatic erotic practices to to mix. 

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It is almost guaranteed that whatever we do together, it will not look like a traditional erotic (or sex work) encounter. Orgasm is not the goal, nor is performance or impressing each other with our already established sexual skills!

 

Instead, we get to move into the unknown, where learning and discovery happen, staying with our curiosity and in our bodies throughout. Along the way, anxieties about worthiness, competence, attractiveness might start to fall away as your capacity for presence with yourself and others grows.